Masks. We all wear masks in order to live in an unbearable world. If each and every one of us had a choice, we would kill everyone else so as to live in perfect, still, undisturbed quietude. Kirilov found that impulse to be excessively arduous. He chose to kill himself, affirming One’s divinity. But, alas, so many yearn to be with others. The reason? Because they think they should. They think they should find flesh to defile, find labour to exploit, find love…because we should all find love. But what solves the perpetual boredom of should? Fucking, lots of it, preferably finding as many victims as possible. Misery loves company – so the cliché goes.
Beneath the excuses we concoct for being with others lays the raw, purely instinctual and primal, desire to copulate and procreate. Vanity dresses it as something less temporal, and, gasp, eternal. Vanity justifies craving for hot bodies as perfection or Destiny – the ultimate should.
While I wandered around the bunker-shelter, images of apocalypse adorned the walls: black and white photos of mushroom clouds, a grey kitsch painting of four men on horses, an ominous group of dog conspirators playing poker, and a poster featuring a woman performing oral sex on another woman. Somewhere in my old uncle’s mind was this fear: if women ever figured out how god-damned incompetent men were as lovers and found comfort with each other, the world would cease to be. I assume, of course, women would somehow master parthenogenesis and produce a peaceful, productive, and vibrant society freed from the tyranny of testosterone. But I digress.
[digress]
He gazed at the lesbians in the poster. A dim smile appeared on his face. He was aroused. It had been five months, two weeks, three days, eight hours, and forty minutes since his penis – six and a half inches in length, two and a half in diameter – entered a vagina. The drought caused the king of desolation a great deal of physical discomfort.
[digest]
The art of conversation runs parallel to sex. A person who rushes through conversation, ostensibly to get it over with – coitus being the aim in most cases – makes for a careless, selfish lover. He or she who listens, who approaches interaction with patient care, likely displays a similar demeanour in the bedroom. The impatient individual plunges headlong into unseen doom. He who is careful and meticulous lets action bear fruit. But, then again, neologisms and platitudes remain theoretical until put into practice.
Can boldness be taught? Or are you just born bold or not? Assert oneself in all you can do, capitalism teaches its automaton acolytes? Tragically, one must have a decision, for better or for worse, and accept whatever affective consequence follows.
“He thinks on the page and is choked by encounter,” my mom said about her brother, my uncle Vance. Uncle Vance was a middling academic. He graduated with honours in Anthropology and embarked on a PhD in English. Seven years later, he failed to complete it. “Vance just overthought it,” mom said, “He actually is a really bright guy.” And he was. He published his memoirs, Seven Ivory Years, to rave reviews and over two million copies sold. The true appeal of his memoir? All of it was fictional. The now legendary mesculin trip, the psychedelic out-of-body love affair with Queen Elizabeth I, and even his daily trips to a local pub in Cambridge, all of it was made up. How did nobody ever find out? The subtitle for the book was an unfortunate, yet opportune, cliché: Stranger than Fiction. His supposed mesculin buddies mistook reality for fiction and confirmed the story. Queen Elizabeth I, ostensibly dead since the seventeenth century, was unavailable for comment. As for the patrons at the local pub, they were convinced all those improbable stories happened some forlorn yesteryear and myth became reality.
Actually, my uncle rarely commented about the first two stories – leading me to believe there was some truth to them. But he certainly debunked the last one. “I wouldn’t be caught dead in that mausoleum nominally called a pub,” he told me and my brother, Wyatt, as children. “The place to find primo ass,” he continued, “is any university library. Those women are desperate, neurotic, severely self-conscious creatures, who would, despite appearance, polish your pole just like that.” I was nine, Wyatt seven.
In hindsight, I appreciated how candid Uncle Vance was, how he effaced the demarcation between childhood and adulthood. “If you gotta find out sometime, better know it now than be caught with your pants down.”
